Love is one of the basics of healthy relationship.
Having said this, it all depends on your definition of love. Most people think that love is a feeling, but some would strongly debate that point.
Actually, the concept of "like" is really about feelings. When you say you like someone, you are talking about how you feel. But when you say that you love someone, you are not necessarily talking about how you feel about them.
Love is much deeper than a feeling. Love is a commitment we make to people to always treat that person right and honorably. Yes, for those we become especially close to, we will have feelings of love, but some believes it is time for us to re-examine what we mean by love.
We must expand our definition of what love means by including the commitment aspect of love.
For healthy relationships, we must love everyone. We may not like them based on how we feel about them, but we should love them based on our definition of love above which in turn determines how we should act towards them, that is, treat them right and honorably.
So this is the basis of all healthy relationships that I learned and want to share with you folks.
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